TALES OF AN ORANGEPEELER an archive of pleasures, wounds, sublimations & other curiosities :: profile 12.31.18 At this zenith of the year, waylaid by a cold and emotional exhaustion, for all kinds of reasons that I won't write about here, I will try to remember this bit of wise advice from Jessica Dore: "The choices we make in love + the choices we make in life are often linked. We are always either moving in hopes that we might possibly have our needs met, or in fear of annihilation. Inching closer to the things that matter most to us, or further away from them." <<